Time for some girl talk, but with a kinky twist.
Switching 101
Switching, to put it simply, is someone who has traits, desires, and kinks that fall on both sides of the BDSM exchange of power. This poses a unique set of needs and considerations that goes much deeper than simply researching Dominance and submission as separate topics. It is the constant shift and balance that brings…
5 Ways for Submissives to Bring their Best to a Dynamic
I distinctly remember typing “how to be a good submissive” into my google search bar and was frustrated at the vague or sexually based responses I kept stumbling upon. I felt like there was some elusive secret or checklist that if I kept reading I would eventually find and viewed submission as one size fits…
Safe Words
Whether you are familiar with BDSM or not, chances are you’ve heard of “safe words” in some sort of conversation, movie, blog, etc. And while this post’s intention is to educate you on what a safe word is, most importantly I want to teach you when and how to use them the right way. Having…
Hide & Seek
The sound of metal on metal hits her ears as the key slides inside the front door. A slight smile crosses her lips as she hooks her manicured fingers into the waistband of her lace boy shorts, sliding them down her hips, draping them over the key rack. Quickly she runs to His office and…
Sub drop
As much as I would love to write a post about how to avoid sub drop, in my personal opinion, that’s an unrealistic goal for submissives and Dominants alike. With great highs come great lows and the goal of this blog is rather to explain what is is, why it happens and what we can…
Interview With a Dom
For a change of pace, I thought it would be fun to sit down with B to provide some insight to Dominance in a more raw and unfiltered format for you all. Keep in mind that B is my favorite Dominant on the planet, but if His answers differ from yours that’s completely okay. Variety…
Dominance 101
If I’m being honest, I spent an embarrassing amount of time choosing the featured image for this blog. I didn’t know exactly what image I was searching for but I knew for damn sure I was not about to perpetuate the image of a Dominant being a well dressed man in a three piece suit.…
Submission 101
I thought I would continue our BDSM basics series by digging in a little deeper about what a submissive is and the different submissive roles within the BDSM community. Submissives choose to give up control to their Dominant within the BDSM dynamic. Submission is a gift, and one that should not be given lightly as…
Mental Health Check Ins
We are switching gears today to some of my absolute favorite topics: mental health, self care and submission. This is the start of a new series I will be weaving into the blog that encourages you to make sure you’re taking care of yourself, especially with the current state of our country. Between pandemics, staying…
Edge Play
Having briefly mentioned edge play in my primal post, I figured it deserved a blog of it’s very own. Edge play is a term used to encompass a variety of kinks and actives within the BDSM community that lay at the edge of what can be considered safe, sane and consensual. In these situations, we…
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