Hi, I’m Emily.

Welcome to my little corner of the internet- I’m so glad you’re here. My vision when creating this site was to record the first hand experiences that I desperately wanted to read about when I was first exploring BDSM. Sometimes when learning and exploring, a voice that sounds like ours, explaining things in a way that just makes sense, can go a really long way. So grab a cup of coffee (or tea if that’s more your jam) and settle in.

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Switching 101

Switching, to put it simply, is someone who has traits, desires, and kinks that fall on both sides of the BDSM exchange of power. This poses a unique set of needs and considerations that goes much deeper than simply researching Dominance and submission as separate topics. It is the constant shift and balance that brings […]